Quoting srchnfnd:

as i said, why is this so difficult. i cant be the only one out here actually looking for a genuine relationship with a bi girl. not with a couple. im not a couple. it would just be nice to meet someone who actually wants to date and get to know each other before jumping in the bedroom. everything i see is about sex only. or lets have fun. i have nothing against that. dont get me wrong. but, isnt there anyone that actually wants to have a girlfriend. something that is actually serious? as in, friendship, dating, eventually living together if it worked out, and have a long term relationship. im bi, i love men, i love women. ive done the man thing, and have reached the conclusion that us women are just far more compatible for the most part. id love to have a girlfriend that wouldnt mind scoping out a guy to play with at times. but, the basics should be about the girls. distance is not important to me, bec if we become friends first, and theres enough of an attraction and chemistry, we will find a way to be together. i have my own home, i am financially stable, have no drama in my life. im attractive, but not a model. i have no illegal addictions, and am simply looking for someone similar. is there anyone that feels that way too?

as i said, why is this so difficult. i cant be the only one out here actually looking for a genuine relationship with a bi girl. not with a couple. im not a couple. it would just be nice to meet someone who actually wants to date and get to know each other before jumping in the bedroom. everything i see is about sex only. or lets have fun. i have nothing against that. dont get me wrong. but, isnt there anyone that actually wants to have a girlfriend. something that is actually serious? as in, friendship, dating, eventually living together if it worked out, and have a long term relationship. im bi, i love men, i love women. ive done the man thing, and have reached the conclusion that us women are just far more compatible for the most part. id love to have a girlfriend that wouldnt mind scoping out a guy to play with at times. but, the basics should be about the girls. distance is not important to me, bec if we become friends first, and theres enough of an attraction and chemistry, we will find a way to be together. i have my own home, i am financially stable, have no drama in my life. im attractive, but not a model. i have no illegal addictions, and am simply looking for someone similar. is there anyone that feels that way too?